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Fathercator is speaking

If you want to see the questions behind the answers and thoughts of this floor, you should read what Echo of Child and after that Echo of  Whoman said in our blogpost: Child is speaking and Whoman is speaking

The meeting of three echoes

“I thank you dear “Child” and “Whoman” for inviting me to this important conversation. Somewhere deep in my consciousness I have been waiting and afraid that this moment will come. The moment that the three of us sit down and I don´t have any other choice than to listen to you. I read through your writings many times and got so many feelings and thoughts going through my brain. You asked me so many questions and all of them are brilliant and big ones. I have also invited the Echo of Purity, everything we are connected to; our audience (you dear reader), to join the conversion with their comments, so I suggest we start going through your questions one by one. I wrote all the questions of two of you down and will make sure, all questions are finally answered and there is still room for all new questions.

 

We are going to have a long journey. No wonder, because we should have started this decades ago. Humanity should have started this internal conversation from the moment communication was possible. Or maybe this kind of communication was here before we started to communicate with other people? Maybe, as we started to pay more attention to other people and their opinions and views of ourselves, we stopped listening to our inner conversations? Fortunately, now is better than never!”

Do you see who you are? (the question of Child)

“I am the echo of the educator in every father and mother. I call myself “Fathercator”. I am an echo that wants to reach the sound that resonates in every grownup: we all are educators and have a mother and father energy in us. Some of us have all these aspects of being human in daily use,  some use only part of them and some don’t recognize them. I know my mission seems impossible, but I have no choice than to start this journey. As a professional educator and as being both mom and dad and observing hundreds of different breeders in my lifetime, I have noticed that educating is like a religion to people. There are as many theories and beliefs as there are breeders or educators. I believe there is no wrong or right pathway to walk as a developing human being; every path has its meaning. There are just pathways we didn’t choose ourselves and are not satisfied or proud after walking them through. Past is past, only this moment lasts.”

 

Where are you moving your own feet?(the question of Child)

“My aim is to help everyone who reads and writes this blog to find the ability and tools to listen to our soul, heart, physical embodiment and situation in a way that we all and our children could choose the pathways of one’s own. Most importantly, my aim is to find a pathway, where our children are not trampled. I want to make my guided feet walk along paths towards the destination that at the same time feels meaningful to me, brings peace to Echo of “Whoman”, a sense of joy and security to the Echo of Child and is in harmony with the Echo of Purity (the surrounding world, you dear reader).”

Who wrote the missions and who offers the opportunities in our lives? (the question of “Whoman”)

“I don´t know the exact answer and does it really matter who wrote them, if they feel right for us? More important is how we feel about the missions and opportunities in front of us. To understand the pathways we choose, we need a deep dive into our past and to our roots. In my experience of life many things that pushed me into deep experiences as a breeder, where I hated myself and the choices I made, I didn’t have a choice anymore. I should have changed direction a long time ago, and when I could have chosen differently, the ship could no longer be turned with the knowledge or power I had. But I learned that there are certain choices we CAN make and no one guided me to make those choices. That is why “Fathercator” is needed. We need to combine the wisdom of motherhood, fatherhood and educational science to understand what is sustainably good for a child and what is good for a child, is good for everyone. That is why we should start writing our own missions and see with our own heart all the possibilities that life offers. But as we write it, we need to understand how we are all built as human beings.

You, dear reader, represent my situation, the purest true echo outside of me, who I am connected to and who can affect me. Before this conversation with “Whoman” and “Child” continues, can you answer these questions for yourself?

Do you know yourself?
Do you know what you want?
Do you know why you want, what you want?

“If they were easy to answer, please tell us why and what helped You to find the answers (add comment down below).

If the questions seem hard to answer, stay tuned!

We three echoes just started our conversations with you and we will be back at the moment you are ready.”

 

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Terminology Recap: Key Terms to Know

Echo of Purity

Represents you, the reader, and everything that connects us—our past, future, surroundings, challenges, and opportunities. Your thoughts bring this blog to life.

Echo of Whoman

Blends “human,” “woman,” and “man” to show that everyone has both feminine and masculine qualities, contributing to life’s richness.

Echo of Fathercator

Combines father, mother, and educator. It symbolizes how we guide and support each other to grow stronger together.

Echo of the Child

Represents the inner child within us all—curious, honest, and playful. It reminds us to care for children and view the world with wonder.

Echoes in Finnish:

Provides a Finnish cultural perspective, focusing on the experiences of Finnish women and linking local stories to global conversations.

Echo of Singing

Connects us with each other, capturing hearts and flowing from one person to another through the power of understanding.

Echo of Science

Views people as a whole and uses science to understand and teach, which is the blog’s main purpose.

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